What happened to the term “Ugly People = Nice People”?

I grew up knowing a fact that no one is perfect.

So if you tend to have some good attributes, there are bound to have bad attributes to counteract them.

Just like Ying & Yang

Simple example is:

A woman with a gorgeous body and when you look her face; she looks like a car had run over her face.

[You don’t dare act goody-goody with me; I know you have seen such women and think such things!]

Good looking people tend to have an ugly side and the unattractive ones are usually the nicer people. I know that not ALL good looking people are 'meanies’ and not ALL ugly people are nice but they are in the semi-majority class.

2 years ago, a group of big sized women from another company but within my district take a service bus that sends us out to Simei for lunch.

They are so obese that they have to walk sideways on the walkway of the Comfort Bus and they are so sloppy looking; one would think nothing of them right?

WRONG!

They are so freaking insecure that if Jhon and I laugh, they immediately think it is about them and they would say sarcastic remarks towards us. Most of the time, we would not give a damn but one can’t help but get pissed off right?

They have been at it for 3 years and even when we don’t pay attention to them, they would still comment very loudly at our direction, “Si dua tu ada” or “Menyampah” loosely translated as “The two of them is here” & “Irritating”

Lately, they have been talking less about us only because they have new people to irritate. My two malay colleagues who are very nice ‘kakak’ (sister). Infact, they are so nice that they are the rare few that I am close with at work.

These obese women would keep turning to stare at these ‘kakak’, saying things like “yang tu, yang pakai tudung” (the ones who wears a headscarf) & “ADA MATA PANDANG!!”(If you have eyes, just look!!); thinking that my colleagues are trying to sneak a peek at them. -_-

Who want to look at obese, ugly & sloppy women walking like crabs every day?

Here we are minding our business; they are only bringing attention to themselves in a bad way.

Their self-esteem issues must be sooooo low that they have to stoop to such a level to feel good.

Every day, we try to brush it off, not let our anger get the best of us and pity them for being a human that is ugly inside and outside.