Life with Sarah (Month 4)

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Sarah at 4 months old!
By this time, I had more or less got the hang of Sarah, crankiness and all. I mean, I do get exhausted but it comes with the package so I can't really complain.

Sarah had her usual baby ups and downs. There were days when she was wonderful and then there were stormy days when everything does not seem right. Even so, I was grateful that her bad days are actually not bad lah. She was just a handful and I didn't get any rest. But when she smiled, I just melt.





Sarah's hair was growing well except for the back of her head. It's mostly because of pillow friction. She loved to move her head side to side while sleeping at night.

Speaking of which, at this age, Sarah started to have her night time fussiness. Like I've mentioned before, I had no problem with her not sleeping through the night but I have no idea, she seems to be extra clingy. 5 minutes after putting her in her cot after making sure she was in deep sleep, she would look for me.

From that moment on, ladies and gentlemen, Sarah started to sleep with us in bed.
Since I've started side-laying latch her, it's actually convenient for me because even after she unlatches, I just continue sleeping. To be honest, half of the time, I would be too sleepy to monitor that she had fallen asleep to move her anyways.



Sarah is also at her excessive drooling stage. I am talking about until her cloth gets all damp! She could be teething because she does bit on our fingers rather hard. We had been attempting to get her hold her teether to bite but that does not last long.



All the 3 of us officially love the Soul Anoona carrier. The angel responsible for this was Angie who blessed it to us and she even came over for a while to guide me how to wear it properly. We were still noobies though, constantly checking and sometimes still confused wondering how to get her positioning just right.





I don't know why Sarah looked so serious here. haha
After dinner, Jhon would be on Daddy Duty while I clean up. Sometimes Sarah couldn't wait because sometimes it overlaps her feeding time. I am forever grateful with Jhon. He is so reliable and hands on.



Standard shot after Sarah's immunization shots. Coincidentally, we saw Ayah after the doctor's visit. It was really nice to see him. It was already hard to see him when we were under the same roof, let alone now. I was happy for them to have their Atok & Cucu moment. We caught up with each other while having breakfast and parted ways.





For the first time, Sarah borderline having a temperature. Her head was really hot but body temperature was okay so we did the standard cool wet cloth on her head.



Aiyah... she was so cute lah!



Luckily, she was okay by bedtime.



Do you understand how it feels to wake up to a grinning baby?
Even though on some days I was not ready to wake up yet, it takes almost all the grogginess away as she looked up to me with her puppy dog eyes.





Sarah dislikes tummy time since the beginning but we did make it up with other forms of exercises to strengthen her back and neck. It was only now that she willingly flipped but of course at a limited time, only.



One thing for sure, she was manja as ever!





We were for sure getting used to going out by then and finding ourselves going out often on weekends. I welcome this more than ever mostly because we were always cooped up at home. I guess the only challenging thing was finding nursing rooms and timing Sarah's eating cues which she does not have any!


It was a good sunny and bright day that I had to insist in taking a family photo. Sarah was zoning out but mostly not in the mood because it was way too bright. But it was okay, we managed to get a few good shots. haha






This is got to be one of my favorite photos of Sarah this month. We visited Abg's house for a mini project which turned out to be a fail. haha 




On the first week of January, we circumcised Sarah. I know this is taboo if you are a non-Muslim and to some Muslims too. Yes, we were aware that it's only sunnah and not compulsory. It was just a teeny-weeny snip and Sarah recovered with no problem. She actually barely cried.



This was also the age Sarah kept scratching her face. The ironic thing was, she tend to scratch herself more after a nail trimming. Yes, it pained to see her face covered with scratches but there was nothing we can do because she tend to scratch herself at night. I was just glad that baby's recovery rate is fast.


The season when Singapore was colder than usual so Sarah took over my side barricaded with pillows and a blanket.


I was so accustomed to baby wearing Sarah to a point that it's my go-to choice. I also always volunteered to wear her mostly because Jhon still has his body aches while I was taking it to cover my now bigger body and additional weight for exercise.



Sarah, my little siew mai. haha 


I just love that cheeky grin but I began to wonder if it was a start to an older Sarah's signature grin after doing something naughty.




We finally got Sarah a walker. She has been wanting to walk ever since the first month. Yes! In case you are new here, I have a video of her taking steps while I supported her. See this blog link.

Anyways, Sarah is not only clingy but also always wanted to stand and sometimes it did get tiring so we decided to get one early so I can take breaks. In the beginning, I just let her sit/ walk for maximum 15 minutes because her bones are still weak after all.

Here's a picture of her first time on it. 
Yea, not having fun. hahaha After a few tries, the walker became her best friend.


Yea, on top of her excessive drooling, Sarah had heat rashes. She would scratch rather hard, mostly at night which led to scratches. This went on for a month or so. I tried all kinds of remedy and by the end of the day, powder mixed with water or sometimes just ridiculous constant application of powder everyday eventually helped.


Sarah on bumbo at Mak's house. Sarah had separation anxiety so that was not fun for anyone who wants to hold her. haha


And that concludes this post.
Is anyone reading these? haha
I write mostly for myself anyways but just wondering though.... 


   

Super Hero Birthday Party


This party was taken on December last year. Yes, I don't know when I will ever manage to catch up to present. haha Anyways, we were invited to Wati's kids birthday party. Sarah was only 3 months old and we were still trying to slowly introduce Sarah to the outside world; mostly to people and sounds.

When we arrived, Sarah slept for a while and actually did quite well throughout the party even though it was very noisy with the big group of kids.




Fizah and Matin was also there so it was nice to have a quick catch-up. Now that both of us have kids, it's extra hard to meet up. Perhaps when Sarah is big enough, we can do play dates. hehe

It was also nice to meet up with all my ex-school mates. I was the last one to have a kid among the group. Hidayah is already with her fourth kid! I had plenty of catching up to do. haha Cerita kelakar seram.


Aida's daughter, Mia was cute. She seems to be quite a social butterfly, talking and playing with us.


I almost forgot what made Fizah laughed in this then I remembered, Sarah was snuggling looking for boobies! hahaha



With almost all the kids! So cute and fun! Unfortunately, I missed this because I was nursing Sarah in the room. This makes me wonder if I will have birthday parties for Sarah.




Thank you to Wati & Adi for having us!
I am so envious of Wati, 33 with 3 kids and still look pretty.


Nice catching up, guys! It was fun!
Bila lagi? =P





   

Life with Sarah (Month 3)

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Sarah had moved on from Newborn to Infant stage!





And on her birthday, she went for her 3 month jab. haha



My botak baby girl! Did I mentioned that it turned out that she had cradle cap? After almost a week of coconut oil massages, it went away. So remember, it's good to shave baby's head for the hidden cradle cap. I think that's why some mommies who share how their baby would have cradle cap at a later age but perhaps it was there all along.

But be prepared for a potential hair grown in patches though. It's normal because of pillow friction. Eventually that patch would grown albeit slowly.



Precious moments with Daddy.





Erm.. yea... Sarah is VERY expressive like her mom. haha



After a few at home trials with Sarah in our Cybex First Go carrier, I eventually had the guts to go out alone with Sarah. Erm... only to meet Jhon at the MRT station after work. haha



Yea, Jhon is carrying Sarah way too low but don't worry, we got better at baby wearing now. hehe



Sometime during the month, we had our first kid's birthday party to attend. It was hosted by Wati and Adi in Punggol. Which reminded me, I did not blog about it at all. haha Will do so after this post.

In summary, we had a nice time lah. Sejak bila aku ni sociable mama pun tak tahu.
I think it's just maternal instincts kicking in making me more sociable?
The place was rowdy with plenty of kids but Sarah did well.









She learned to flip at this stage. She still dislikes tummy time so she will only do so on HER terms. Attitude sey. But as long as we know she can, we are happy. It's just a matter of does she want to?



Her head looked so big here and so boyish. haha I kinda can't wait for her hair to grow longer so she looks more feminine. Bluek.



A random not in a mood shot. Always happy je, once in a while, crying shot. haha
We had to attend to another wedding. Jhon's colleagues (my ex-colleagues), got to see her, especially Kak Yati. We both had borderline separation anxiety while she took her away. Luckily, she didn't take very far. haha Meanwhile, we just kept turning around making sure Sarah was in sight.



Mak and occasionally the boys would come over to visit so it was nice to have company (and more food).





I hate it that the shot is blur but it's too precious to delete.





Better.



Another wedding! That's why Sarah is always in pretty dresses this month which I am not complaining. hehe It was my cousin's wedding so my relatives got to see Sarah and Sarah also got to see her cousin who is only 1 month older.

When we see 2 babies of similar age, don't we wonder if they can baby talk and understand each other?





At this point, I was gaining weight again due to not eating confinement food anymore. On top of that, I was munching on lactation cookies and craving for anything sweet! I can tell you, I was on the path of destruction but I didn't care.



Jhon placed this on Sarah and she just stayed still. haha



And lastly, MY precious moments with Sarah.
She is at the age when she responds well. She would stare, smile and even laugh which is one of my favorite milestone.