Cambodia, Day 1: Siem Reap ( Tonie Sap Lake) + Vlog

  I know it's unconventional to not go beach honeymoons like Maldives or somewhere far from Singapore like Europe. Just like other people, I do have a mental list of places to visit whether it's near or far. One of the many places is Angkor Wat. I've mention it in a post before. I wanted to be where tomb raider was.

Usually, people visit Cambodia for 3D2N specifically, at Siem Reap and sometimes Phomn Peh but Jhon and I went for a 6 Days 5 Nights trip from Siem Reap, Phomn Peh and Sinakhouville.

This is going to be a long series which may take more than 5 posts so I hope you will enjoy reading and watching (my vlog) as much as we enjoyed our trip.

One week after our wedding, was our Cambodia trip. We had engaged with Chan Brothers which was not as easy as it seems because most packages don't focus on Sihanoukville which is a beach resort area for Cambodia.

We had a roughly 2+ hour flight with Jetstar at 1:55pm and set to arrive at Siem Reap at 3:10pm. Note that Singapore's time is 1 hour ahead. The flight was alright, no complains. I just didn't realized how much weight we lost during the wedding preparations up till the wedding.





When we arrived Siem Reap International airport, we were informed that it was 37 degrees. The passengers groaned but I laughed. *psycho* I mean, what do you expect?

Before alighting the plane, we were giving several pamplets one of each was a list of advises while in Cambodia. Such as do not encourage children beggers by giving them money, respecting the monks, conserving water and such.



The trip was supposed to be a group tour but to our happy surprise, when we were greeted by Mr Thea, he said it would be just the 2 of us! Hooray for sudden private trip! Thus far, we have always been lucky whenever we had our getaways. It always somehow turned out to be a private tour. As soon as we got our luggage, we headed to our ride and went straight to Tonie Sap Lake, the largest lake in Southeast Asia.

Cambodia has the same vibe as certain parts of Thailand, Indonesia, Philippines and Malaysia. I guess the word I could describe is same difference, if that makes sense. You'll see what I mean when you watch my vlog at the end of this post.





Unfortunately, Cambodia is experiencing a drought period. Even if it rains, only lasts for a while.
Due to this, we can't experience the true vastness of the lake since we see mostly the bottom of the lake. Either way, it was still an interesting experience for us.



Obviously, everyone commutes by boat and since the lack of water, sometimes the boats have to squeeze by as our paths crossed. There were also time where some boats get a little stuck with the low lying water.











I was not kidding when I said the lake was low lying.



We were told that we will be visiting a floating village but I take this as a floating restaurant. I don't know about the other floating restaurants, but the one we visited had crocs as an exhibit. Do you know previously, the lake is filled with crocodiles? They were huge and imagine coming across with it while on their boats?




Items here are expected overpriced but we are here for the views anyways.







From the top of the floating restaurant, we can see the actual floating villages from afar.
 It would be interesting to able to see them up close like Jhon did in Phomn Penh during his company's charity work but I guess having thousands of tourists peeking in your house is not fun at all.





Cambodia was also known for their beautiful sunsets. Unfortunately, during our stay here, we didn't get the awesome sunset shots every night due to cloudy days. I mean, who am I to be selfish when there's a drought going on right? But we did managed to get a few good shots on the first day.









As soon as we got off the boat and climbed up the stairs, the clouds had almost covered the sun. Talk about luck!

After the ride, we were sent to Angkor Mondial Restaurant for dinner. The place was MASSIVE with loads of food. Since Cambodia is not Halal food dominated, we only choose vegetables and fish type dishes. No complains there because Jhon and I are not picky eaters. Anyways, having this diet will prevent us holiday weight. hehe The restaurant was decorated with traditional Khmer style which yet again a reminder that all Southeast countries are not that different after all.







The food was okay, at least the ones we tasted. Plus, we were hungry and anything edible was good enough for us. The main star of the entire place was definitely the traditional Khmer dances. They were plenty types and the show actually last for 2 hours.

The dancers were legit beautiful and I did went up close. Their movements were precise and delicate which match their traditional music. Like all traditional dances and music, every performance had a storyline. Sorry to say that we didn't last very long. We only lasted 1 hour until we decided to head to our hotel.







Our hotel was Angkor Era Hotel. Before I proceed, yes, even though it was a simple trip to Cambodia, we actually went all out with our accommodations. I mean, it's a honeymoon after all. I never cared for 4-5 star hotels because when I travel, I spend most of the time outside, not inside. Since we were travelling with a special reason, we splurged.

It was the best decision we ever made. One, being Cambodia an affordable country, prices were legit cheap. Two, since some of our tours can be tiring (there's going to be temple climbing), it was really nice to come home to a wonderful room with bathtub and all.

The lady was giggling away, saying that we got bumped to a special side of the hotel and that she had a surprise for us (it was funny that I always say I have surprise for people lol). The room was decorated for our honeymoon because while booking, Jennifer at Chan Brothers stated that we were honeymooners.



This candid shot of me being shy-shy is hilarious!



Do you know how appreciated I feel? When I transferred the towels, I maintained their origami state to a chair. Jhon laughed at me but I didn't care. Too pretty to destroy even though it was probably easy-peasy for the hotel staff to fold.



Our pool side view was gorgeous and almost a shame we didn't get to enjoy it fully.



And that was about it. We soaked in the bathtub and regret not getting bath bombs (for fun). Jhon didn't understand the concept of marinating ourselves in the tub but I love it. It's more enjoyable after a long and tiring day and I soak in hot water.

Here's my vlog for the day. It has some clips that are not in the photos so you gotta watch!




 

National Day Rehearsal 2016

Yes, currently, I am a queen of delayed posts and this will continue for quite a while. I can write more than 2 posts a week in hopes of catching up but majority of the posts have their own vlogs. My vlogs are not that fantastic and don't garner views as my blog but there's something about video memories that are unique of their own.

Anyways, on the 30th July, I had asked everyone to join Jhon and I for our yearly fireworks picnic. The more, the merrier especially with the kids around. Unfortunately, it was still hari raya period and my siblings were still busy visiting their in-laws and friends' houses.

So it was just Mak, Jhon and I like the good old times.

This year, the National Day was held at the National Stadium. It was interesting to see a different point of view since for the longest time, the parade was at the floating platform at Marina Bay. [did you read about how the stadium turned out to be privately own (not government) and the rental rates were atrocious so the community is considering to continue having the parade at the floating platform in the next years when it's supposed to be a temporary place in the first place while the stadium was being renovated?]

Armed with our usual gear, Lontong Goreng, chicken nuggets and drinks, we headed to Kallang by bus. It didn't take us much time to find a spot. We purposely chose a different spot (from the usual spot you see on the web: the stadium right in the middle with fireworks above). I told Jhon I preferred the stadium to be off to the side so it won't look messy.



While waiting for 8pm, we ate, chatted, enjoyed the view, looked at the doggies, joggers and children. The sunset was not that bad too.

Before we knew it, it was dark and the moment we've been looking for began.















Here's my 2016 picnic with fireworks vlog. It has plenty of time lapses minus my screams of joy (as usual).


 

The Wedding Night

Now, now... Before you perverts jump into conclusion, I am not going to talk about MY wedding night. I am just going to talk about it in general. After all, how can I say I like to talk/write about anything and everything by not talking about it?

Contrary to common belief, the action under the sheets are not always done on the wedding night itself or it's wrap up to be. Here are the different scenarios:



💑 Too Tired to Try
Wedding functions can be tiring. It's tiring ever since the planning itself, let alone the big day especially if the big event lasts for days. By the end of day, the couple maybe filled with happy memories but no doubt, as soon as they hit the bed, it's knock out time.

💑 Been There, Done it Couple
This one is obvious, there are couples who have done the deed. It could be just another night for them or maybe it's a little special because they are consummating as a husband and wife.

💑 Together but Separated
Due to certain situations, the newly wed couple may not able to even end the night together side by side on the bed. For example, my situation, where Jhon's family stayed over at his place and since there wasn't any extra room, I continued to stay at my place until they went back home to the Philippines.

But since we had a staycation at Sentosa with the family 2 days later, I would say our first time alone in bed was there and then.


💑 Never Been Kissed/Touched
I know, it's rare but there are still couples who managed to maintain their purity throughout their relationship. Let's be real, majority of us have at least had some sort of hanky-panky (even if it's limited to kissing) enough to spark fires. So the wedding night is a perfect time to release all that build up tension. BUT for the untouched, the wedding night is probably full of giggles and embarrassment. Usually, it will take a days or weeks to even do the deed.

💑 The Flop
This is the moment both of you've been looking for. The big bang, but it didn't work out. Perhaps it was too painful for the lady or the man rushed too quickly to the finish line. Don't be upset. Start it slow and communicate.

Whatever the scenario is, enjoy every moment of your time. When it comes to personal desire and preference, it's best to voice it out. It helps to make an effort even if it's a little bit. You shouldn't feel forced and the situation should feel natural.

Meanwhile, have fun! hehe

   

Sentosa with the Tolentinos Day 2

Read Sentosa with the Tolentinos Day 1

My photographer got very lazy and didn't want to take photos that day. He didn't want to even take out the camera so I can take over. HMPH! But I understand, he just wanted to give his family his full undivided attention especially that it's their last day in Singapore.

We had our breakfast at Hard Rock Hotel which was meh.





We had already packed the night before so the morning was not that chaotic. We packed and cleared the last minute items, checked out and off we went back via MRT to home where their luggages were.












Oh, wait, we did visit Mak for a while for an official goodbye THEN they packed.

We took separate cabs to Changi Airport and arrived quite early so we explored the place. We even bought a few more stuff and Papa was saying we were over spending. =P He was advising me to save money and such but I giggled and told him, it's his son that need that advice. Plus, it's once in a while, we get to pamper them. Every year, we buy them Citra Lotion & Kwang Long medicated oil (as requested) and occasional sport shoes. Since they were with us, it's easier to make them choose, what shoes and clothes they really want.

We also killed time at the arcade.







Jalan-jalan some more. It's moments like these that I am grateful for Changi Airport. There's plenty of things to do and see unlike other airports besides shopping.









Before we knew it, it was time for them to head down to their gate and get ready for their departure. It's been a wonderful time having Pa, Ma, Loi and Jayden around. I hope they had feel welcomed and enjoyed every moment with us. For sure, we are going to miss them and their antics. I will be counting the days and saving up for us to visit them in Philippines. Hopefully, with my family. hehe

I love all of you and thank you again for accepting me to be part of your family since day one.
Mwah mwah!